The centre of mass of a system of particles is the point that moves as though all of the system's mass was concentrated there and all external forces were applied there.
The centre of mass of a symmetrical homogeneous object is located at the geometric centre of the object.
The centre of mass of a collection of objects is found by treating each object as if it were a single particle at its own centre of mass.
Example
A dumbbell consists of two spheres connected by a cylindrical rod.
The spheres have the same radius and all items are homogeneous.
The first sphere is located at the origin and has mass 3 Kg. The second sphere hassd a mass of 1 Kg and is centered at the point with position vector 0.3i +0.4j. The rod has a mass of 0.1 Kg.
Find the position of the centre of mass of the dumbell.
A lamina is a 2 dimensional object whose thickness can be ignored.
A llama cannot be ignored.